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I’ve watched businesses collapse because the boss’s marriage was on the rocks.I’ve watched companies surge to astounding heights because the boss’s personal life was surging. Bottom line, is that life affects business to a large degree.Personal issues DO affect business and the workplace.So what to do if life’s throwing a bone into the mix?One simple technique that can address one aspect of such a situation…(obviously, a situation like this deserves and requires a lot more than “one simple technique”…however, for the sake of this post I will focus on just one aspect)I guide and remind that one should identify that it’s the home (or external) situation that’s causing your mood and not your team or your work.That’s causing a lack of focus etc.Once an individual is made aware of this, it can help and becomes far easier to swing back into things and refocus on the task at hand. Has your personal life messed with your business life?What did you do about it?

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I was having a deep conversation with a friend last week about relationships.He called me out on something that rocked my world.Our conversation was about making big relationship decisions.I told him what I believe:If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no.A few days later I sent him a Twitter post that reinforced this idea.It was posted by one of my favorite podcasters and was talking about the Paradox of Choice:“When faced with a difficult choice, such as:- Should I marry this person?- Should I take this job?- Should I buy this house?If you cannot decide, the answer is no.And the reason is, modern society is full of options”His response was hilarious.He said:“Not sure I wanna take marriage advice from an unmarried Love Island participant/ night club promoter”(The aforementioned podcaster was on Love Island before he started his podcast)This pointed out a major flaw in my thinking. And something that I have been thinking about a lot since:Just because you admire someone for WHAT THEY DO, Doesn’t mean you should believe EVERYTHING THEY SAY.Funny enough, I pointed out the same thing to a different friend a few weeks ago.He was quoting Andrew Huberman and Lex Fridman talking about relationships.I politely pointed out that while I love them both, they are single, unmarried men in their 40s.So how should we make big life decisions?I think it’s choosing what feels right on the soul level.Bonus points if it’s in line with the thoughts of someone you admire.Just make sure that they either:1. Have what you want to have2. Are similar to who you want to become

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As I look ahead to 2024, I’d like to encourage anyone in my network to join me in considering a resolution that I think we could all benefit from focusing on:Getting along better with people who are different from you!In the business world, there is enormous value in surrounding yourself with people who think differently. Many people cite the Steve Jobs and Tim Cook partnership to illustrate how useful it can be to be counter-balanced by someone who thrives in the areas that you struggle with, and vice versa. Working alongside someone who show you another way of seeing a problem or a challenge, is not only useful, but can be crucial. Understand this and it will result in fruitful collaborations that could save your business – and maybe even your marriage.As my distinguished colleague Iwan Jenkins writes in an article for the KAI Foundation:“It is important that you know who you are and recognise your peaks and valleys. Then you must identify the strengths and weaknesses in others, and seek those who compliment yours, not duplicate them.”Make 2024 the year you get along with those who think slightly differently to you.Here's the link to Iwan's excellent article if you'd like to check it out: https://lnkd.in/eqiNnsWK

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As You're Building Your Brand, Don't Forget To Build Family Relationships!If you build your brand alone and forget your family, you may end up alone.How do you feel when something very important to you is taken away by another?Most teenagers and young children are going through a lot these days.Phones and computers have stolen their treasures away.Their parents don't have time for them.Most of them take solence on their gadgets.Make out time for your family.Let them know you care about their feelings.Off your laptop.Keep your phone on silent.Bath your kids todayLet their nannies take a day offBound with your kids.Some kids are depressedHave a heart-to-heart talk with them.Inquire about their school activities.Play with themYour family needs you.Happy Social Saturday.Let's connect if you're seeing my post for the first time.I'm Ann you're favorite relationship coach on LinkedIn.Let's have a heart-to-heart session to discuss any issue in your relationship or marriage.#linkedlnconnect#linkedlncommunity#reaperscohort1.0#21daysconsistancychallangewithcynthia

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In a world brimming with distractions, from endless social media notifications to the constant buzz of our smartphones, it's easy to forget the art of truly being present. Alex Hormozi often reminds us that your most valuable asset is not your time, it is your attention. Use it wisely.Today, challenge yourself to put away digital distractions. Whether it's turning off the TV at dinner or setting your phone aside during a conversation, these small actions can lead to significant improvements in your relationship. Engage fully when your spouse speaks to you. Listen not just to respond, but to understand. Show her that she has your complete attention, that her thoughts and feelings matter deeply to you.This isn't just about improving your marriage; it's about enriching your personal life. Quality time spent attentive and engaged can strengthen the bonds that form the foundation of your support system. Rediscover the joy of truly connecting with your partner. Make today the day you choose to be fully present.

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𝘿𝙤𝙣❜𝙩 𝙙𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙧. 𝙈𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙖 𝙗𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧 𝙞𝙣𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙖𝙙.I made this mistake some time ago with my ex.She had this amazing skill that has a great potential to make one rich if developed correctly. I looked at her, got attracted and asked her out for a romantic relationship.Of course, it was her wish as well, hence, she accepted. While dating, I got to give her business tips on how to succeed in her business. In fact, one of the ideas I suggested then to her, I recently saw the exact product by another company. And it's a new product in the market.As soon as I saw it, my voice came back to me with an addition - "only if you took it upon yourself to leverage on her skill, it would have been your product by now."And up till now, she didn't do anything about those ideas. I believe she has forgotten all I've even advised her on business already, because we are no longer together.Don't make the mistake I made. There are people God connects you with, not for romance, but for business partnerships.Don't date someone you should partner with. Ensure you are businesstic enough to discern the aims for meeting people.Yes, she looks amazing, sexy, good, wife material, etc. but, she may not be for romance or marriage. After all, not every wife material is for you.When you meet someone, even if it's the opposite sex, no matter how irresistible he/she may be, think about each other's skills and how to leverage first.Romance is good, but business provides the means to sustain and enjoy the romance. Always remember that.Don't date her. Make her a business partner.© 𝗙𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝘀 𝗘𝗹𝗶𝗮𝘀

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STRANGER BECAME A FRIEND 🤗You may be in a,- networking event,- friend's marriage,- travel,- new place,it can be anything like this.👋 To get normal in a new place,90% we might need to speak with someone.Then, How to start speaking with a stranger?The answer is simple, just saying, "HI".😑 But it is the most difficult task, isn't it?So, here are my simple steps to make a stranger a best friend to you.- THINK FOR A SECOND[If he/she is older than you, think like he/she as your senior]- JUST LEAVE A GENTLE SMILE WHEN YOU BOTH SEE FACE TO FACE[Maintain eye contact]- SAY 'HI'[When you both come close to each other]That's it 💐You both will become friends or whatever according to yours.It's just like, when you meet a person for the first time in a school/college, how did we start speaking to each other?That's how, here also my dear buddy.If you want to discuss something,I'm here 😍Just send me a message.Always, with love 💐RJ RamanaRemember 👇நல்லா இருப்போம்! நல்லா இருப்போம்!எல்லாரும் நல்லா இருப்போம்!#networkingskills #bodylanguagematters #introvert #communicationiskey #startupevent #startupfest

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Everyone experiences these feelings. Some people may be able to handle these feelings a little bit better than others, but at some point, we've all wondered if we are doing enough..Am I giving my kids the quality time that they deserve...or are they just getting left over mommy.Am I growing my business fast enough?Do I even have it in me to do ALL of "this?"They are so much further along than me, smarter than me, more successful than me, prettier than me, a better mom than me.....And the list goes on. We rarely feel like we're doing all things well, but let's be honest. EVERYTHING can't run perfectly ALL the time.🔥🔥Your business, relationships, friendships, marriage, your children's behavior, the laundry, dishes, and cleaning your house can NOT run on all cylinders 100% of the time. 🔥🔥Take a deep breathe, give yourself a break, and chill for a second. YOU ARE ENOUGH.Do you feel like this sometimes? Tag a friend, save this, and send it to someone who might need it.

I love working with entrepreneurs on their intimate relationships because they’re ambitious people with a growth mindset.These individuals thrive on challenges and are deeply passionate about their businesses.𝗠𝘆 𝗰𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀: Your personal relationships offer huge potential for growth.By channelling some of the drive and determination you have for your business into your personal relationships, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲 𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀.𝗜 𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁 𝗺𝘆 𝗰𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 in understanding the benefit of personal relationship work for their businesses. 𝗜 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱 that strong, healthy personal relationships are crucial for business success.Because ultimately, what's the point of achieving success if your marriage feels unsatisfying and your kids don’t like you? If you want to scale your business you must also scale your life 𝗜 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝗮 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗺𝗲 𝗮 𝗺𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝘃𝗶𝗮 𝘀𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹𝘀 𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝗺𝗮𝗶𝗹 𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝘁 𝗻𝗮𝗼𝗺𝗶@𝗽𝗹𝘂𝗺𝗼𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴.𝗰𝗼𝗺.Naomi 𝗣.𝗦. 𝗠𝘆 𝗻𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗡𝗮𝗼𝗺𝗶 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗻𝗶𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜❜𝗺 𝗮 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵. I work with you on a one-to-one basis teaching you the skills your parent's didn't model for you that marriage and family life healthier and happier so you can leave a new and better legacy for the next generation.𝗣.𝗣.𝗦. 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗖𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗙𝗔𝗤❜𝘀𝗤: 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻? Allow up to 60 mins for the call.𝗤: 𝗗𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗴𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻? No it’s free.𝗤: 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘄𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹? We speak over the phone and I call you. There is no charge for the call no matter where you are in the world.𝗤: 𝗜’𝗺 𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗮𝘆: Don’t worry I guide you through a simple exercise designed to collect the key information.𝗤: 𝗗𝗼 𝗜 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂? NO. If you're living together, dating, recently broken up or single and looking for love I can help you.𝗤: 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲? We discuss all the specifics of working together at the end of the call.

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“For you”The best two words you can add to anyone else opinions of what you do, say, think or feel.Ever noticed how 👉🏼 Business is really hard👉🏼 Creating content is a nightmare 👉🏼 XYZ is the only way to succeed 👉🏼 It’s impossible to do XYZ👉🏼 Doing that takes too much time And so on…….“FOR YOU” 👈🏼 How much better does it feel to say that in response? Someone else’s experiences do not have to be yours. You don’t need to own them. They don’t need to be embedded in your journey just because they are projected onto you by someone else who is triggered by what you are attempting to do.That goes for life and business.👉🏼 Marriage is hard👉🏼 Having kids will be tiring and stressful 👉🏼 You can’t create balance👉🏼 It’s not right to say or do that The list is endless. Ask yourself, who is it really serving when these phrases are said to you and worse, when you accept them as YOUR TRUTH?One of the greatest gifts you can give yourself is the ability to be objective over the direction of your own existence and how things will go.Yes, there are times when the above might be true, but do those time have to become the only and permanent way or can you change the narrative and decide for yourself what things will look like? Believe me, you’ll achieve a lot more when you write your own story and not get caught up and written into someone else’s 👏🏼

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